RSVP By 9/1 • Wedding Weekend: 10/23 & 10/24/2026 The Westin Carlsbad Resort & Spa 5480 Grand Pacific Dr, Carlsbad, CA 92008

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Mike + Marlena

October 24, 2026 • Carlsbad, California
94 Days To Go!

Mike + Marlena

October 24, 2026 • Carlsbad, California
94 Days To Go!

Starting at the very beginning ...

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In retrospect, it feels almost serendipitous that both Michael and Marlena ended up at the University of Kansas. He, from Minneapolis, Minnesota, and she, from Denver, Colorado, neither one planned on Kansas — it just happened.

What began as casual conversation led to a night at The Cave (iykyk) and, by December, exclusive. On January 18, 2016, after winter break, Mike officially asked Marlena to be his girlfriend.



That iconic black-and-white photo? Totally candid. Mike’s friends thought they were being sneaky, but ended up capturing the very start of the journey. Score.

Freshman year @ KU during a 90's date party

January 29, 2016

Freshman year @ KU during a 90's date party
Boulder, Colorado

October 10, 2016

Boulder, Colorado
Lake of the Ozarks, Senior Formal

May 05, 2019

Lake of the Ozarks, Senior Formal
Moved in together in Wrigleyville, Chicago

June 05, 2019

Moved in together in Wrigleyville, Chicago
Moved to San Diego, CA

May 13, 2023

Moved to San Diego, CA
Adopted Bama

October 18, 2024

Adopted Bama
Engaged chapter starts here.

April 19, 2025

Engaged chapter starts here.
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Carlsbad, CA | October 24, 2026

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